Monday, October 16, 2017

God's Will Be Done - With or Without You


            C.S. Lewis once said, “For you will certainly carry out God’s plan, however you act, but it makes a difference to you whether you act like Judas or John.” This curious saying is highlighted quite clearly in today’s difficult gospel lesson from Matthew.
            Today, we are confronted with the last of three parables on judgment that Jesus tells the chief priests and Pharisees. The theme of God benching the starters in favor of the 2nd and 3rd string players continues. And of course, God doesn’t bench the starters because they are pitching a blowout. Rather, the starters get benched because their head isn’t in the game.
            Like the previous parables on judgment, today’s story spells out God’s judgment in exaggerated terms. For starters, who in their right mind would decline an invitation to the greatest party ever thrown? Even more, when was the last time someone was hunted down and killed because they didn’t come to a party? And finally, there is a man who is sent to the dentist’s office (that is my new euphemism for hell) because he didn’t come wearing the right kind of clothes.  
            Ultimately, this parable reminds me that God will go to any measure to get our attention. In fact, God goes all the way to the cross – sacrificing his own Son – in hopes that we will claim a transformed life in Christ. But even then, there are those among us who will continue to resist the new life we are given freely in Jesus. “Many are called, but few are chosen.”
            Now, if I were a Calvinist, this would be the perfect time to make a pitch on why we should believe in the Doctrine of Predestination. But I am not a Calvinist, so this lesson isn’t that easy to explain.
            While I believe in Calvin’s doctrine of Unconditional Election (that is – we are all invited), I do believe we have a choice – like C.S. suggested in the opening quote – in how we respond to the invitation – something a Calvinist would reject based on the doctrine of Irresistible Grace (that is – those who are elected will be unable to resist God’s invitation). It seems clear to me that some will not know what to do with grace when it hits them in the head.
Human nature holds a doctrine of fairness and deservedness. Human nature is not conditioned to choose grace because it shatters how the world is supposed to work according to the law of deservedness. Human nature likes to make sense of the world by separating the good from the bad.
But again, quoting C.S. Lewis, “we don’t know how bad we are until we try to be good.” Eventually, we are all confronted with the truth that we are not as good as we would like to think. But this is the beginning of the good news. According to today’s lesson, we are not judged on whether we are good or bad. The king, after all, tells the servants to gather up the good and the bad for the party.
I have an image of John and Mary Katherine in my head when I think about this extended invitation. When Mary Katherine wants to have nothing to do with Mom and Dad’s love and affection, Mom and Dad go and squeeze on baby John. But when Mary Katherine sees that she is missing out on the hugs and kisses, she suddenly changes her minds and wants to be a part of the action. And of course, we let her in.
While this is not spelled out in the parable, I like to think that those who initially reject the invitation will be drawn back to the party because they don’t want to miss out on the action. I like to think their illusions of fairness and deservedness are shattered when they see how God’s grace and mercy makes room for the greatest party ever thrown. For those who initially reject the invitation, God’s judgment to extend the invitation to others turns out to be a word of mercy.
However, this parable shows another kind of judgment – a final judgment. The people who are judged most harshly in today’s lesson are not the ones who reject the invitation to the party. Not even the bad people are judged harshly. The person who is judged most severely is the one who comes to the party wearing his own clothes rather than the clothes given at the door by the king.
The place where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth is not for those who decline the invitation or even for the bad people but rather for the one who shows up to the party thinking they are good enough to wear their own clothes to the party.
I guess this might be like the highly recruited starting quarterback who thinks he can call whatever audible he wants to because he thinks he is smarter than the coach. And I’ll let you draw your own conclusions as to what the head coach will do to this quarterback.
God doesn’t care if you are a one-star recruit or a five-star recruit – you are invited to join the team – everyone makes the cut. And your decision to accept or reject the invitation doesn’t stop God from throwing the party – God’s will be done – with or without you – Judas or John. But it does matter how you act once you make the decision to show up. And by the looks of it, you have shown up to the party.
While all are invited to the party, you can only stay if you are all in. You can only stay if you are willing to change into new clothes, if you are willing to take off your own clothes of righteousness and put on the robe of righteousness given by the King of grace and mercy, if you are willing to accept that your life is in the hands of God and only in the hands of God.
  Until you are willing to go all in, you must stay on the bench. Until you are willing to give it all to God, you must sit in the dentist’s office where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth. And it is God’s hope that this reverse psychology, that this hard word of judgment will be revealed as a happy word of mercy where you want to get back in the game.

May God’s word of merciful judgment give you the grace to stop trying to look good in your own clothes, give you the grace to stop trying to keep up with the latest fashion trends, so that you may put on the clothes that God has chosen for you to wear through Jesus Christ – clothes that will never go out of style. Amen.

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