Monday, March 20, 2017

You Are Fully Known, Fully Loved


I read somewhere that today’s passage contains enough material for a lifetime of preaching.  I bet I could write a 100 sermons on today’s lesson and never scratch the surface of the truth that abounds in this story.  In addition to being the longest conversation that Jesus has with anyone in the gospels, every verse packs a punch.  And to make matters a little more cumbersome, today’s lesson cannot be properly understood without holding it alongside the scripture we read last week – the story of Nicodemus. 
To refresh your memory – Nicodemus, a member of the Jewish establishment, seeks Jesus out in the middle of the night and engages in a conversation.  Like the Samaritan woman who struggles to understand what Jesus means by “living water,” Nicodemus struggles to understand what it means to be born again.  But unlike Nicodemus, Jesus’ conversation with the woman at the well happens in broad daylight for all to see. 
Unlike Nicodemus, the Samaritan woman is not given a name.  And unlike Nicodemus, we can assume, based on her marital history, she is not respected in her community.  Even more, this Samaritan woman is representative of a people who have been at odds with the Jewish people for centuries.
            And unlike the story of Nicodemus, it is Jesus who initiates the conversation.  It is Jesus who goes out of his way to encounter the woman at the well.  While Jesus is certainly attentive to religious people like Nicodemus, he is most concerned with those outside the religious community – like this Samaritan woman. 
Jesus is most concerned with those who the religious people have left out of the salvation story.  And as followers of Jesus, we are called to do likewise – to learn that names of those who society has left out of the story. 

Jesus starts the conversation with this woman when he says plainly, “Give me a drink.”  And this is the point when the woman looks up from the well, looks to see if anyone is behind her, points to herself and says, “You talkin’ to me?  Sir, I’m a nobody.  No one wants to talk to me – let alone a Jew who despises me and my people.”  I imagine the woman at the well must have thought Jesus mistook her for some else.
But Jesus assures the woman that he is well aware of who she is.  He tells her that she has been married four times and the man she is with now is not her husband.  At this point the woman is blown away.  But she doesn’t hide like Adam and Eve do when their sin is uncovered.
Rather, she is quite impressed and is drawn into a deeper conversation.  How wonderful?!  Instead of being ashamed of herself when her sins are exposed before God, she is drawn closer to God.  I think this is something we religious people can learn from.  I hope your recitation of the Decalogue during Lent serves to draw you closer to God.  
Because Jesus knows everything about the Samaritan woman, she starts to recognize Jesus as some sort of prophet.  And like one does when they meet a clergy person, she asks a religious question.  She asks, are we supposed to worship on this mountain or in the Temple in Jerusalem?  Again, Jesus moves the conversation in a new direction.
Jesus tells her about a day when all will be able to worship the Father in spirit and truth.  Jesus tells her that true worship isn’t about who has the best religion, true worship isn’t about whose church is in the best location, true worship isn’t about who has the prettiest building.  As former Presiding Bishop, Frank Griswold said, true worship is about “an openness to love at every level of our being.”
And just when Jesus finishes his teaching on true worship, on being open to love at every level, his disciples come back and wonder why Jesus is even talking to someone like that woman.  Meanwhile, as the disciples are steaming over Jesus' apparent lack of concern for social customs and cultural norms, the woman at the well rushes back to the city to tell her friends about Jesus.
She is so excited she forgets her bucket of water; she leaves behind what she thought she needed to live.  The outcast Samaritan woman is doing the work that Jesus called his disciples to do – to drop everything and follow him.  Like the disciples, how easily do we forget that we, too, were once on the outside looking in?  And this woman serves as a powerful reminder of what it was like to discover that nothing – gender, race, sexuality, nationality – can separate us from the love of God.
What happens next is perhaps the biggest challenge for me in today’s lesson.  After the woman at the well invites the people to meet Jesus she says, “He cannot be the Messiah, can he?”  What?  How can you be a messenger of the gospel when you aren’t even sure who Jesus is?
All she knows about Jesus is that he knows everything about her.  But this is enough for her to get excited about telling others about Jesus.  When her friends inquire further, she simply says, “I can’t really put Jesus into words, but I want you to come and see this Jesus.” 
What if evangelism was that easy?  What if evangelism wasn’t about having it all figured out so you can download your program onto someone else?  What if we didn’t make talking about Jesus so complicated?  What if we simply said, “my encounter with Jesus has changed my life, and I want you to experience what I’ve experienced?” 
As we have been studying in Episcopal Church 101, our Anglican witness to the gospel doesn’t require that you have it all figured out before you make a commitment to follow Jesus.  The idea here is that even our best words can never fully capture what we experience when we follow Jesus, our best words fall short of describing the infinite truth found in God. 
But there is good news. Our salvation doesn’t hinge on how well we can articulate our faith in Jesus.  Rather, our salvation begins and ends with the truth Jesus knows us and loves us fully – the good parts, the messy parts, the confused parts, the bad parts, the sad parts, the happy parts.
And the truth of God’s unconditional love in Christ is what gives reason to our faith.  Our commitment to follow Jesus grows out of our knowledge that God loves us right where we are and for who we are.  We are compelled to tell others about Jesus because Jesus knows us and loves us fully for who we are right now. 
Ours is a faith where God restores us not by demanding that we change and be more like Jesus.  Rather, ours is a faith where God changes us by becoming like us – humanity is redeemed through the image of Christ in us.  God restores us by entering into our human experience to show us how humanity was made to love.  As Athanasius said, “God became what we are so that we might become like God.”
A parishioner shared with me a conversation about a friend’s preschool aged daughter who was dealing with the death of her little brother.  The daughter began by saying that she doesn’t miss her little brother because she sees him in her dreams and knows that he is always with her. 
And finally she said this, “I never really knew my little brother, but I know he knows me.”  That’s it!  This simple sentence from a child captures the mystery of our faith.  Our faith is not so much rooted in how well we know Jesus as much it is rooted in how well Jesus knows us.
Beloved, this mystery of our faith is the living water that Jesus is talking about.  Even though we often fail to recognize the source of our life and salvation, we can put our trust in the truth that the source of our life and salvation knows us and loves us more intimately that we can ever know and love ourselves.  This is living water because this is a truth that we mortal beings need to hear again and again in order to live. 
Through Jesus, God reveals to us that we are fully known and fully loved – not for what we have done or for what we have left undone – but for who God made us to be.  Like the Samaritan woman, we can appear before God in broad daily light – not hiding any of our undesirable parts or boasting about our good deeds – and trust that God will love what he sees.

Beloved, when you hear Jesus say to you, “give me a drink,” I hope you hear Jesus saying, “I want you to give your life to me.  I want you to give your life to me so that you are filled with the unchangeable truth that you are fully known and fully loved.”  Amen.

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